no matter what you could do, you cannot change even those closest to your heart.  unless you have come to an early accord, you cannot actively change the person you care about to fit your needs.  that is why it is essential for our parents to nurture us until we start making big decisions with our lives.  but in our age, all we can do is show our loved ones the way and it is up to them whether they want to take that path or not.  or moreso, the ultimate thing we can do is change ourselves for the better.  as we ask people to respect our choices in life, we also have to do the same with theirs.  that is why you won’t see me forcing my own set of principles unless someone eagerly asks for them.  like they said, “when the student is ready, the teacher appears.” 

i am still in constant learning about acceptance.  and with acceptance comes an enlightening feeling that will carry on with a positive note as i traverse my future path.

been watching the cavs and pistons play.  while my future business partners and i were discussing plans over dinner at bj’s tanforan, the place was filled with nba fans cheering for the teams they were rooting for.  besides the place in atherton, i will be purchasing a pad in soma (the new place near the ballpark) so i could also do my real estate business in the area.  and i thank my business partners for these.

got this from empyre.  the guy is insane!

to succeed in life, succeed in being yourself.

only the man who has found his true self can know himself, find his own best talents and achieve his own high success.  we need to live our own lives, and this attitude should be instilled in childhood.  with being yourself comes self-control, a mighty source of strength in handling both circumstances and people.  beware lest in trying to pile dollar upon dollar you give up too much of yourself, for that man is truly rich who owns his own mind as well as his own fortune.

napoleon hill

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25 Comments on “”

  1. badkittie says:

    hey, thank you!yeah that dude is crazy! i commented this vid on empyre’s page. that is awesome, lol.

  2. mooks_dayoo says:

    most people try to change me. they always mean well, maybe it’s instictual, maybe i’m doing something to them to cause them to want to change me. accepting someone fully, for who they are is difficult, it takes a lot of heart.

  3. mooks_dayoo says:

    i just watched the video, omg he’s good.

  4. ChoCo_LoCo says:

    ur moving to cali? congratulations! and the video. wow. madddddddddddd talent yo!

  5. i totally wish i was in TX right now…

  6. EternalLove says:

    nice post. cafe with cool drinks..is always nice.wine at home..i like that better actually.what’s your fav drink?

  7. decipherme1 says:

    you always have the better perspective in life. i salute you.i love how the guy starts cracking up. yup. he knows hes good. im more intrigued with the french judges.theyre hott.

  8. deep2000 says:

    ryc: actually its a bad thang…=(

  9. viviko5 says:

    ah man you’re so right! i feel so naked.

  10. EternalLove says:

    yeah’ i love driving along GW pkwy. moving back to cali? bwooo..

  11. Anonymous says:

    too bad, I’m tracking your balls right now…
    *beep beep*

  12. yep time to cash in some $$$$. yet again my break was not long enough. 🙂

  13. EternalLove says:

    what part of cali? i enjoyed spring weather in san fran’..

  14. WTH? That dude on youtube – how is that even possible!!!?? Geez.

  15. cindee_rella says:

    undie run…..3000+ frustrated college coeds running through campus during finals week =D  it’s gonna be AWESOME

  16. decipherme1 says:

    dude, your posts always inspire me, not only in my blogs, but my every day living. p.s. haha.. are you trying to tell me to go to france and stalk those french judges???

  17. cindee_rella says:

    actually, i encountered the trash can god, the tree god, and the car window god…..oy.

  18. TY!!!! It worked =)

  19. hence soul searching…
    he ewan na…

  20. rittachu says:

    I believe she is miniture but I don’t understand the feet part??Like the your post…

  21. wanarace101 says:

    you ride too?  ^____^

  22. wanarace101 says:

    definitely fun.  but dangerous as well.

  23. wanarace101 says:

    go get one so we can go riding together. oh and let’s go to the beach when i’m in the bay area. :] i miss the cali sun…… :[

  24. ChoCo_LoCo says:

    boRn in Pomona. u know of? nyc is awesome night life, but still i would rather stay in the sun forever. just relaxing . hehe


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